Dom Code of Conduct

Non-Negotiables

These are strict rules. Breaking them may lead to account suspension or permanent termination.

Your account is yours alone. Sharing your account with anyone else is strictly prohibited and will result in immediate termination. Verification and safety depend on knowing exactly who is behind each account.

Blackmail must remain fantasy only. If a roleplay or service includes blackmail themes, it must never be carried into real life. Any real blackmail, coercion, or threat outside consensual fantasy is illegal, harmful, and will lead to immediate account termination.

No AI-run conversations. Slaves come to Slave Market to interact with real people. Using AI to fully handle or impersonally run your conversations is not allowed. Using AI to help you fix or improve your language is acceptable, but the interaction itself must remain genuinely yours.

Do not engineer failure for profit. You must not design tasks that a slave clearly cannot complete, or require items they obviously do not have, in order to manufacture failure and trigger penalties or extra payments. That is abusive and will result in sanctions.

Respect escrow protections. Listed services and sessions must be paid through the normal purchase flow so the payment is only released after delivery is confirmed. Requesting tribute to avoid escrow, or asking for validation before full delivery, undermines that protection and is considered abuse. Tribute may be used for services that are not listed, but it must not be used as a systematic way to bypass escrow. In the event of a dispute, the matter will be resolved in the slave’s favor.

Fair Dealing

Offer value, not unfair extraction. Dominance must not be used mainly as a way to unfairly extract money. If tributes are driven by pressure, manipulation, or manufactured dependency rather than a genuine consensual dynamic, that is likely to be considered abusive. Repeated or systematic behavior of this kind will lead to sanctions.

Deliver on time, or agree on timing first. When a slave purchases a service or session, they will usually expect it to be delivered shortly after, especially when it is something intended for immediate use or enjoyment and they are in the mood for it. Dominants should not accept services or sessions just to secure the payment if they are not able to deliver within a reasonable time. If delivery is delayed and the timing was not clearly communicated in advance by the Dom, it is not fair to later blame the slave for being impatient. If you cannot deliver promptly, make sure the slave clearly agrees to the delay before accepting the service or session. In the event of a dispute, where no clear timing was agreed in advance, it will be resolved in the slave's favor.

Don't pile tribute on top of an already-priced service. If a slave is already paying for a service or session, asking for extra tribute on top can easily become unfair. While this can be perfectly acceptable depending on the dynamic, it should not be used to pressure the slave into paying more than they reasonably expected.

Proof of task completion must go through a free session. If a slave purchases a service that includes tasks, they need a way to submit proof. A free session should be opened for that purpose, rather than requiring the slave to pay again by submitting the proof through a gift.

Consent & Boundaries

Findom requires clear interest. Financial domination may be suggested, or engaged in where a slave has clearly shown interest, but pushing findom on someone who has not expressed interest is not acceptable. Repeated excessively pushy behavior will lead to sanctions.

Match tasks to the slave's experience and means. A beginner with little BDSM experience and no equipment at home cannot reasonably be expected to complete advanced or specialised tasks. When in doubt, start lighter and build gradually. Disputes about clearly inappropriate tasks will be resolved in the slave's favor.

Do not begin with harsh degradation unless it is clearly wanted. Many slaves do not want to be insulted, degraded, or spoken to harshly by a stranger from the first message. Unless their profile or prior conversation clearly shows that they want that kind of interaction, do not assume it. Start appropriately and adjust based on consent and response.

Community Standards

Respect other Doms' ownership dynamics. If a slave is owned by another Dom, they are already in an active dynamic. Approaching owned slaves directly is poor form and disrespects both the existing Dom and the arrangement. If an owned slave contacts you first, it is courteous to ask whether they have their Dom's permission before engaging.

How you speak about other Dominants matters. We're building a community where Doms support and learn from each other. Cooperation will take you further than denigration.

Take inspiration, but do not copy-paste. You are welcome to take inspiration from the general ideas of other Doms unless a service is explicitly protected by exclusivity. However, copying someone else's service text or concept word-for-word is not acceptable. Bring your own personality and style to what you offer.

Keep comments on slaves' files polite and appropriate. Comments on a profile should remain polite, fair, and useful to other Doms. They should not be written in the heat of anger. Even when a file is meant to be private, write it as though the slave could one day become aware of it. Harsh language may be acceptable within a temporary humiliation dynamic during a session, but it should not be left as a lasting comment on the slave's file.

Be polite and constructive when contacting support. We're always happy to help, but a courteous tone definitely helps :) Please give us enough detail to understand the issue: what you did, what you expected, and what happened, rather than simply saying "it doesn't work" or "I want that..."

Authenticity & Integrity

Present yourself as a real person, not a polished facade. Slaves come here for connection. We encourage posting real photos of yourself rather than heavily edited or AI-enhanced images. Imperfect but genuine tends to feel better than flawless but fake. You're a Dom, you're perfect as you are.

Act in good faith. Not every situation can be covered by a written rule. If you are uncertain whether something is acceptable, ask yourself whether it is honest, consensual, fair, and respectful of the platform's protections. If it clearly is not, do not do it.